THE MEANING AND THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING A FAITHFUL MAN IN THE PRESENT SOCIETY.
The human being is a collective creature.
His ultimate goal is to cooperate for preserving and developing his species, like many other animals such as the bees or the ants do.
The human social order, initially was based on hunt and nomadism.
This society, like dogs, felines and others predators, rewarded the ALPHA MALE, the strongest subject who inseminates many females and imposes his winning genetic equipment.
With time, the human society has changed and chose the permanent order as the most effective one for surviving and evolving.
The most successful male for this new kind of society is not anymore who randomly spreads his semen and goes away, maybe forever, but who lives and acts next to his partner and children.
In most cases, this social order is still the present one.
Considering that we can say that a sexuality lived inside the frame of a stable relationship is till now and without any doubt, a more cooperative and useful behavior in terms of preservation and evolution of the species.
Any occasional and Care-Free intercourse it is just a selfish behaviour that is harmful or at least useless.
A male who refuses to be emotionally committed, is someone who does not do his part inside the community. Practically a parasite.
The subject who is present and helpful is, on the contrary, the present ideal model of male.
It is interesting to notice how all the main contemporary religions extol this model of male, not only to guarantee the survival of the soul to the physical death, but also, probably to show the preferable way for making our species survive, evolve and prosper in the present life.
Andrea Tosatto is a Clinical Psychologist, works with adults, teenagers and children at Synergy Integrated Medical Clinic in Dubai, UAE. In Italy he has worked for a heart rehabilitation private hospital (ISCC Camogli Genova), a Juvenile Law Court (Juvenile law Court of Genova), and for Medical and Educational Centers, where he worked as an ABA therapist for autistic children (trained by the American association CARD).